What Not to Wear for Stampede at the Office

The Calgary Stampede is an iconic tradition in our fair city and for 10 glorious days we get some relief from business attire and get to to dress like cowboys and cowgirls while we enjoy pancake breakfasts, beer gardens, and hay bale decor.Western_women

However, the 10 days of Stampede are not an excuse to wear jeans, a T-shirt and your flip flops! If our employers are generous enough to let us wear western wear to the office, then we should put some effort into dressing appropriately. Today, as I walked the streets of the downtown over the lunch hour, I witnessed the good and the bad of Stampede dressing. Most of the good outfits were worn by men. One very good-looking young man on the C-train had on a Wranglers western shirt, Wrangler jeans, a straw hat and some well-worn cowboy boots. I am sure lots of women would want to take that cowboy home!

On the other hand, it seems that, like business attire, women have far more options so they also have far more opportunities to make mistakes. Today I saw shorts, mini skirts and dresses worn with jean jackets, but showing much too much leg for the office. I also saw tube dresses worn with small plaid short-sleeved blouses thrown over as a “shirt jacket”. Stampede gives us an exemption from modesty in our offices? I don’t believe so. I also saw women in jeans, ordinary T-shirts and weekend sandals. Sorry, but that is not western. That is just laziness. If I was their employer, I would inform them that Stampede week is not an excuse to dress sloppy all week. You either dress in proper western gear or you wear your business attire, period.

If you are unsure what to wear, here are some ideas that will get you well on your way to dressing western smart for the office:

Ideas for Ladies

  • Western embroidered shirt, jeans, belt with large belt buckle (see picture on the right), and cowboy boots.
  • Same with a denim skirt, no shorter than 1″ above the knee when standing.
  • White button down shirt or T-shirt with a denim vest or jacket, and a coloured denim jean (think white or a pastel colour), and boots.
  • Floral or lace dress, again no shorter than 1″ above the knee when standing, with a denim vest or jacket, and cowboy boot.Target-Booties
  • A tan-coloured cowboy boot will be the most versatile. Jeans may be tucked into the boot ONLY if they are skinny jeans. A traditional boot cut jean is preferred with the pant leg over top of the boot. Other types of boots don’t usually don’t look western enough unless they have a stacked heel.
  • White T-shirt, floral or lace skirt , denim jacket or vest, cowboy boots
  • Lace or floral blouse, jeans, cowboy boots
  • For more ideas, visit my Pinterest board.

Ideas for Guys

And guys, I am not completely letting you off the hook. That “sort of” plaid shirt in your closet is not the same as  a Western shirt. Western shirts have details that differentiate themselves from regular shirts. If you are unsure, visit a western store and have a look at their offerings. And every man in Calgary should own a pair of Wrangler jeans, a Western belt with large belt buckle, a cowboy hat, and a decent pair of cowboy boots! Trust me, the hat and the boots will make you look sexier and taller.Cowboy

Lastly, most of us have western clothes in our closets from years of Stampede dressing. However, some of you may need to update things a bit. I discarded a fleece jacket a couple of years ago from the 90’s that looked dated. Today I saw some long frumpy skirts and jackets that were long overdue to be replaced. There are lots of stores in Calgary, including the ever affordable Walmart, that offer trendy western wear at this time of year. And, if your budget is tight, try a second-hand store like Value Village or a consignment store. Or better yet, wait until the Stampede is over and then buy great items at half the price for next year!

Happy Stampeding everyone!

Fashionably Yours,
Janise Bachler, The Closet Diva

 

Since 2006, Janise Bachler, The Closet Diva, has been helping men & women learn how to Closet_Rescue_Cover_#3067A2-1dress and to refine their personal image in a way that brings them personal and professional success. Janise works with clients on closet editing, personal shopping and styling services. Janise is also a professional speaker, author of the book, Closet Rescue, available on Amazon, and a co-host on the talk show, Kim’s Kitchen, seen on Shaw Cable. Janise Bachler has appeared on Global TV, CityTV, and has been featured in the Calgary Herald

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Turning 50 Reno Project on Me!

I turned 50 this past December (2014). I tried to celebrate but, to be honest, I wasn’t that thrilled. It felt like I was forever saying good-bye to my youth and that I had only decay and aging to look forward to. Our society is so obsessed with youth, as you know.

So, I decided a renovation project was in order. No, not in my house … but a reno project on me. Here are the 4 reno projects I undertook and my scores on the results:

1. Laser Vision Correction
I have always hated wearing glasses. My asymetrical hairstyle meant that my bangs were always bumping into my glasses and I just never felt attractive in glasses no matter how modern or cool of a style I purchased. So I decided to correct my near-sightedness. I booked my surgery with Lasik MD whose commercials advertised, “Starting at $499 per eye.” $499 my foot! $3700 was the quote, supposedly, because of my astigmatism. Anyways, I took advantage of their financing offer and booked my surgery. Surgery was a breeze and recovery was a day of misery and a week plus of discomfort.

Am I happy with the results? Some days. As I write this, I am wearing reading glasses. What they didn’t tell me is that the surgery would completely obliterate my close-up vision. I now need reading glasses to be on the computer, read my iPhone, read the side of boxes in the kitchen when cooking, and a myriad of other things I can no longer read that I completely took for granted. It annoys the heck out of me! I basically exchanged my dependence on glasses for distance for glasses for close-up. Not sure that is a winning deal. And I didn’t get 20/20 vision according to my post eye exam. Some days I see better than others, it seems. I do love wearing normal sunglasses and not having to switch to different glasses when I go indoors. I love the freedom from glasses around the house and watching TV, but now I have to have a pair of reading glasses in every purse and every room in my house.

So, would I recommend it? I would wait until they come up with some solution to correct both issues. It can’t be that far away, can it?

I give this reno project a 5/10.

2) Tattoo’d Eyebrows

A lot of women get tattoos when they go through their mid-life crisis. I contemplated it, but I couldn’t figure out what I would want on my body that I could never ever change?!?! However, I decided to get my eyebrows filled in with permanent ink … basically a tattoo. Between years of plucking my once thick brows to a thin line and losing eyebrow hairs as I have aged10942310_951943858181212_4807372686433556951_n, my eyebrows were down to almost nothing. I had to draw them in with a pencil every single day! I wanted freedom from that!

Again, not a cheap procedure … $700, but I wanted to go with a reputable clinic. I booked in with Maria from Pink Permanent Ink. She had a good website with lots of “Before” & “After” pictures and I wanted the hair stroke type of fill-in, which is a bit more expensive and time-consuming, but provides a more natural result. Maria put freezing gel on my eyebrows and then we drew and re-drew the eyebrows on my face until I was happy with the look. To be upfront, the freezing didn’t take well for me even though she applied it several times. It apparently works on some better than others so it was a bit painful. It was kind of like a razor blade making little scratches into your face but it wasn’t excruciating. When we were done, I thought it looked good but you really need to let it heal to see the end results.

After a few weeks, I decided I wanted more fill-in and a stronger shape, so I re-booked a follow-up, which is only $50 if you book within 8 weeks. This time, Maria thickened the brow and defined the shape. After a few days of healing, I was super happy! It looks fantastic and I don’t have any regrets. Apparently they have to be re-filled every 2-3 years but I don’t care. I absolutely love how they look! I can’t tell the difference between where my real hair ends and the hair strokes tattoo is. And I don’t miss drawing them in every day and I love having eyebrows even without makeup on.

I give this reno project a 10/10.

3) Spiked Hair
I had always admired Pink’s funky, mohawk-like haircut and thought I’d like to try it “one day”. Then I saw a young mom in my local McDonald’s with the exact colour and haircut, and I begged her for her hairstylist’s name and salon, which she gave me. I booked the appointment. I had just started dating a new guy and I almost chickened out, but I figured he hadn’t been in my life long enough to have a say in my hair. By the way, I have much history with men in my controlling my hair. I swore by the time I was 50, I would stop letting men influence my hair decisions!

Amber bleached my hair. It was a long process but she was smiley and chatty so I tried to relax and just go with it. Then she started cutting. At one point, I thought it looked great and then she cut another 2 inches off. Yikes! She dried it, complained about my curly hair … lol, and applied product. Ta da … Pink’s hair and my face. 11265314_10153233068610170_7384332181924709102_n

It took me a few days to get used to it. I got tons of compliments. Lots of people loved it. Those who didn’t, said nothing. On the plus side, I have never had such a low maintenance haircut. It was super easy … no hair dryer; just put in some product and out the door. I felt funky and courageous and really glad I did it. On the negative side, I didn’t feel “pretty” anymore so I have decided to grow it out.

I recently had Amber undercut my hair and I love it! Hey, people, that @#$% grows. Live a little. Try something new. It’s fun!

I give this improvement a 7/10. Good experiment but perhaps not for me long-term.

4) Lean & Strong

Have you ever heard of Danielle LaPorte’s “Desire Map”. She says that setting goals is not very effective and that we should instead set desires … how we want to feel, which is what we are really after anyway when we set a goal. One of my desires was to feel lean and strong. It wasn’t about being skinny, but about feeling healthy and good in my clothes. Well, over this past winter, for whatever reason, I put on 15 pounds. Yuck. I hardly noticed except when I brought up my summer clothes from storage and half of my wardrobe didn’t fit anymore. Waaaaaaaaaah! I actually have more summer clothes than winter clothes (my preferred season), so this was a travesty that I couldn’t wear them and, as a single mom, I couldn’t just go and replace everything.IMG_4214

With the upcoming summer (bathing suit & shorts weather) as an incentive, I called up my friend, Mark, who had been bugging me to check into Isagenix. Mark recommended the “30 Day Cleanse & Fat Burning Program”. I thought, “I can do anything for 30 days, right?”, so I ordered it. When my box of product arrived, I weighed myself. 152 pounds. Ugh. 130 was my goal, so that equaled 22 pounds. I just finished my 30-Day Program and I am happy to report I have released 14 pounds. Only 8 more pounds to go! I will stay on the Isagenix products until I reach my goal weight, probably
in 3-4 weeks.

I give this reno a 10/10. Somehow EVERYTHING seems more possible when your weight is under control!

Am I done now? I think so. I don’t have a yearning to get plastic surgery or Botox anytime soon. I am feeling pretty good in my leaner body and with my new eyebrows. I think it was good for me to kick myself out of my rut and challenge myself. I am not on the warpath to find the “fountain of youth”, but I also didn’t want to slide into my 50’s quietly. I want to LIVE BIG, LOVE BIG and BE LOVED BIG! How about you?

Go, be glorious!

Fashionably Yours,
Janise

RESOURCES:

1) Lasik Eye Correction Surgery – http://www.lasikmd.com

2) Pink Permanent Ink Clinic – http://pinkclinic.ca

3) Accentric Salon & Spa, Stylist: Amber, Ph: (403) 281-9111

4) Isagenix 30-Day Cleanse & Fat Burning Program – http://bachler.isagenix.com

5) Skincare: Nerium – 2 simple products; 1 day and 1 night. My skin has NEVER looked better (ok, maybe when I was 20 … lol.) www.calgaryqueen.nerium.com

6) Non-toxic Personal Care Products – Melaleuca. I swear by it. I don’t want to bombard my skin with chemicals I don’t need to. http://www.melaleuca.com

7) Non-toxic Cleaning Products – Melaleuca. Effective and again, non-toxic. I want my home to be a safe place, not full of toxic chemicals. http://www.melaleuca.com

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Top 10 Must-Have Items for Your Summer Wardrobe

What does a stylist live in over the summer? Here’s my must-have list for my casual summer wardrobe:

  1. White Pants – fitted; denim, linen, or cropped, or all three
  2. Denim Jacket – blue or white; good for over T-shirts or a sundress when it’s cooler or aimageir-conditioned.
  3. T-shirts – Plain white, black & white silkscreened, and/or fun colour
  4. Walking Shorts – beige or olive green
  5. Colourful Top or Blouse – patterned with a colour/white mix
  6. Sundress – Something that is cool and makes you feel pretty, whether a maxi or short.
  7.  Drawstring Pants – Great for quickly pulling over bathing suit bottoms, or add a T -shirt & denim jacket and you have a go-to-the-movies outfit.
  8. Lightweight Sweater – for cooler evenings or an early morning run to Starbucks or an Egg McMuffin.
  9. Summer Bag – Think fun colours or patterns and ess structure to accommodate your sunglasses, sunscreen and books. Time to put that black utilitarian bag into storage for a few months.image
  10. Sparkly or Embellished Sandals – I have a pair of “diamond-studded” beige flip-flop type of leather sandal that I wear with everything. I highly recommend them over rubber … lol.

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Nude Hose – Yay or Nay?

For years, women have shunned pantyhose in favour of bare legs, and nude hose was considered frumpy and old-fashioned. However, the “Kate Middleton Effect” has brought hosiery back into the limelight. Hosiery has been flying off the shelves in Europe and Japan, and now, even in North America, and I am personally cheering on this trend.

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Kate Middleton brings back nude hose!

As a stylist, in my opinion, hosiery is always required in 3 instances:

  1. Formal skirt suit – If you are on stage, making an important presentation, or you work in a conservative professional office, nude hose is required with a skirt suit or a pencil skirt.
  2. Formal cocktail dress – I attended a formal Christmas party last year and saw a number of women with “screaming white” bare legs worn with their fancy “LBD’s” (Little Black Dress). It looked awful! Sheer black hose looks great with an LBD or a bold colour such as red. Otherwise, nude hose is your best choice.
  3. Cold weather – As a stylist, I personally only recommend a bare leg in the summer — never winter! No matter what you think of nude stockings, bare legs look out of place once it gets cold outside. If nude stockings aren’t your thing, then go with the opaque tight.

BENEFITS:

  • Pasty white legs are not attractive! If your legs aren’t long, tanned and toned, then the nude hose will make your legs look better.
  • Hosiery smoothes out uneven skintone.
  • Hosiery smooths dimpling under white or cream pants.
  • Hosiery creates a sleeker line under knitwear.
  • Hosiery reduces rubbing in shoes.

 RULES:

  • Nude hose is meant to be NUDE. It must match your skin colour or you will look dated. Suntan stockings on someone with fair skin should be outlawed.
  • Don’t wear with open-toed sandals or shoes! There are now toeless options out there.

    Sheer Anklet

    HUE Diagonal Ribbons Anklet in Peach Sorbet

HOSIERY TRENDS

  • Thigh-High’s – These are very comfortable and if you get a run, you can discard one instead of the entire pair.
  • Subtle Patterns – Dotted hosiery makes more of a style statement, but for the office, avoid heavy patterns and sexy options such as seamed or a fishnet.
  • Sheer Anklets – An edgy new look is a sheer anklet with a sandal. Not for everyone, but kind of fun.
  • Opague Hose – The black tight has been back in favour for quite a while for our cold, winter months, and flattering on everyone. Colour is fun, but black is always a classic.

HOW TO BUY HOSE

  • Department stores carry the best selection. Avoid the discount brands at stores like Walmart. With hose, you get what you pay for! I love the HUE brand from the Bay. Nordstrom’s carries another quality brand from DKNY.
  • Denier is the key. The higher the number, the more opaque it is. If you want very sheer, go for a very low number. More coverage, go for a higher number.

I sincerely hope that pantyhose makes a major comeback. I believe, sadly, that some women have stopped wearing skirts because they are not happy with their bare-legged look. Nude hose makes your legs look great and besides, most men think hosiery is sexy! Ladies, I challenge you … go buy a pair of nude hose that match your skintone and wear them with Princess Kate pride. Let’s reclaim our femininity and wear those skirts again! Or be even braver, buy a seamed pair, and watch your man drool!

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Looking Sexy Over 40

Being in my 50’s myself, and having lots of friends over 40, I am aware that we are a group of woman who are not embracing our age in the same way our parents’ generation did. That’s why we hear the phrases, “50 is the new 40”, “40 is the new 30”, and so on. And we do look younger than our mothers and grandmothers did at our age due to advances in healthcare, healthy eating, regular exercise, yoga, good skincare products, cosmetic procedures, great clothing, and attitude. We are working later, going back to school, divorcing and dating, travelling and just doing our best to stay healthy and live life to the fullest.

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Showing too much skin is a “no-no”.

In our attempt to stay young, many of us in our 40’s find this time in our life confusing and difficult when it comes to dressing. We don’t want to look silly dressing too young and yet we don’t want to dress frumpy either. Here are some tips for helping guide you through this challenging time in our lives and still look sexy and fabulous …

  • Don’t buy clothes in the same stores your teenage daughters buy their clothes. Your kids want you to look attractive but they do NOT want you to dress like them.
  • Choose quality over “fast fashion”. Cheap just looks, well, cheap.
  • The older we get, the more we need to embrace a classic, timeless style.
  • To inspire your style, find one or two celebrities who are your age, a similar body type, and whose style you admire, and follow them online. They have professional stylists who help them and can help you figure what is appropriate for you.
  • If you are going to show skin to be sexy, choose ONE area only … cleavage, legs, shoulders. If you show too much skin all at once, you will just look slutty, instead of sexy.
  • Be very careful about showing cleavage. As we age, this area can become creapy and show your age too much. Breasts smushed together, forming a straight vertical line just show age. Instead, show off your shoulders or your collar bones, which tend to remain toned longer.
  • Update your undergarments! Wearing the right bra and getting the girls “up” will help you look 10 pounds younger and 10 years younger! Lots of women are wearing worn-out bras or the wrong fit! Go for a professional fitting. Also, if you are still wearing “granny” panties, it might be time to try out some boy shorts, cheekies or thongs to get rid of those panty lines. Plus, pretty underthings just makes you feel pretty and more ready to drop those clothes when those moments of passion happen!
  • Do you have to cut your hair short just because you are over 40? No! But long, straggly hair with no style will definitely age you. So does hair down to your waist! Once over 40, hair just below or at your shoulders tends to be more flattering, as well as side bangs that soften our foreheads. I love my short, short hair because I just feel sassiest, but short hair isn’t for everyone.
  • Let the younger ones wear mini skirts and short shorts! On women over 40, generally we look like we are trying too hard, even if you have great legs. Skirts should be no shorter than 2″ above the knee. If you have a shorter sundress, then wear it with flats or flat sandals to still look tasteful. Your shorts should have a 4″ inseam, at a minimum. And if you struggle with cellulite on your thighs (as most of us do), ensure your shorts or dress or skirt is long enough that when you sit down and cross your legs, that those problem areas are covered. I have seen more than my share of women who are showing more than they realize when sitting.
  • Towering heels again should be left to the young. Choose a 3″ or 4″ tasteful heel or wedge, or a kitten heel. Even though shoes always fit, some shoes can be too young for you.
  • Beauty is genetic, but being attractive is making the most out of what you have. That means you have found the best hairstyle for your face shape, age and hair texture. It means you have learned how to apply cosmetics that play up your best features. It means you wear colours that work for you and styles that flatter your body type.
  • A sexy woman is a stylish woman. Fashion comes and go, but style is who you are! If you need help in this area, a personal stylist can help! Personal stylists aren’t just for celebrities. See my website at www.theclosetdiva.ca to see how I can help you find your style, and how affordable it can be!

Finally, the sexiest woman is a confident woman! Throw your shoulders back, smile, and know you are one of a kind who is here on this planet for a reason, and the world needs to know you!

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Spring Fashion 2015 Trends

Spring fever is in the air! If you have been in the malls lately, you will notice that winter is far behind us and the happy colours of Spring are in the store. Here’s a few things I am seeing …

SPRING TRENDS 2015

  • Pastel colours like baby blue, lavender and yellow, worn with neutrals like grey, nude and white1_217825_FS_2
  • Suede, although I can’t imagine it sticking around long once the temps warm up!
  • Fringe. Again. Yuck … lol.
  • Gingham, especially in black & white
  • Flowy trench coats
  • Jumpsuits
  • Block heels
  • Cage sandals
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  • Nude lips and nails

Need some inspiration for Spring outfits, check out my pins on Pinterest.

Need some help with your Spring/Summer wardrobe? Just to keep you updated, I have returned to work full-time due to my divorce … but I am still your image consultant, just part-time now. I am now booking into mid-to-late March for evening & weekend appointments, and some Friday afternoons. Give me a shout at janise@theclosetdiva.ca or 403-860-1916 if you to look fabulous this Spring!

Fashionably Yours,
Janise
XO

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Want a New Wardrobe Each Season for Free? Here’s how!

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Putting my summer clothes into the storage over the weekend.

Why would you bother to take the time to put off-season clothes into storage?

My mom taught me this rule, and it is one of the best pieces of advice she has ever given me. As far back as I can remember, in spring and fall, as the weather was turning warmer or cooler, we would bring up the clothes in the basement for the upcoming season and put our now off-season clothes into storage. It was a ritual I enjoyed with my mom, usually on the Easter and Thanksgiving long weekends, while we were out of school on holiday.

There are so many good reasons to do this. The first, and obvious, reason is that it frees up space in your closet; having off-season items clogging up your closet doesn’t make sense. You aren’t going to be wearing that wool sweater on a sweltering day in summer.

Second, it saves you time. If you are sorting through your clothes every morning, trying to find the right items for the season, it’s a huge waste of your precious time.

The third, and best, reason for removing off-season clothes from your closet is that it gives you a visual break from your clothes. This means you will not get as sick of them as quickly. It also means you will save money, because when you’re not sick of your clothes, you won’t feel the need to replace them. However, the most fun reason is that when you bring up your clothes for the next season, it is like having a whole new wardrobe. I promise you that you will forget what you have when you don’t see it on a daily basis. You will be amazed at how excited you will be to wear the “new” clothes when you don’t see them day after day, hanging in your closet!

You can store your off-season clothes in storage containers in your basement, or in a closet that isn’t being fully used, such as one in a guest bedroom. I store mine in both. I have several Rubbermaid containers marked “Off-Season Clothes” (and “Off-Season Shoes”) and I store them in my basement storage room. These are good for sweaters, jeans, shorts, T-shirts and other items that can easily be folded. My dressier clothes I currently hang on a rolling rack that I purchased, covered in an old bed sheet, in my furnace room. It’s not pretty, but it works!

Now that we are into a new season, take a couple of hours this week to put your off-season clothes into storage and I promise you, when the next new season arrives and you bring up those clothes from storage, you will be glad you did!

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The Cost of the Purchase

I saw a “Truth Bomb” by Danielle LaPorte today that got me thinking. It said, “Don’t buy it“. I thought, wt107-31c5227b-f38a-4446-9dbf-4c46ef507fc3-v2there is a lot of wisdom in those three little words when it comes to our wardrobes.

1) Don’t buy it without considering the maintenance factor. Every purchase has a cost. Every single thing you buy has a maintenance factor attached to it. If you buy a car, you have to get oil changes. Maintenance. If you buy a puppy, it needs food, walks and vet care. Maintenance. If you buy a white coat, even though I adore white clothing, it will need washing or dry-cleaning, and sometimes ironing. Maintenance. Every time we buy something, we need to ask ourselves  … “Do I really want to add the complication of this to my life?” Can I afford the time needed to maintain it?” “What will I have to give up to maintain this item?”

2) Don’t buy it if it’s not you. Don’t buy the lie that everyone else is right and your inner voice is wrong. Sometimes we buy clothing because we are shopping with a friend who insists it looks good on you. Unfortunately it is their taste and not your own, and it may indeed look good on you, but that doesn’t mean it “feels” like you. Do you really want to look like someone else, even your closest friend? Not me. Don’t buy it because it is a fad or a trend, or because some fashion magazine insists it is a “must have” for the season. Style is timeless. Your style is you. Don’t buy it unless it looks and feels like you.

3) Don’t buy it because it will impress someone. Sometimes we buy things simply because we know it has the “prestige” factor. Whether it’s a designer handbag, a T-shirt or hoodie with the BIG logo, or the shoes with the red bottom, all of these may foster a false sense of importance. But, in reality, we have just spent additional monies for the privilege of wearing someone else’s name (or logo). Now, I am all about quality and sometimes you do indeed get what you pay for. But, if you purchase something because you think someone else’s identity will bolster your own, I think we need to look inside and  examine what is really going on? Are we unsure of our own style?

3) Don’t buy it if you have nothing to go with it! This is my cardinal rule. NO ORPHANS! If you buy something and the only thing that goes with it is black pants or jeans, I can guarantee you that it is an “orphan”. We want to buy outfits (see more on “clustering” for outfit building in my book, “Closet Rescue”). Every time you are tempted to buy something because it is on sale, ask yourself, “Do I have at least 2-3 things to go with this to make it an outfit? And, if I don’t, am I prepared right now to purchase 2-3 things to go with it so it can be an outfit?” Often times, it’s that second question that will have you putting it back on the rack. This is wise. I visit way too many closets and see items with tags still on them simply because the client does not have anything to wear the item with.

Consider the cost of owning something before you part with your hard-earning cash (or put it on your credit card … even worse!). There is a lot to be said for simplicity and authenticity. It could revolutionize your life.

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Fall 2014 Trends Alert

Although I personally don’t want to think about Fall/Winter clothes yet, the stores are full of them, so I thought it was time to give you the “heads up” about Fall 2014 trends, just in case you are itching to get shopping!

FALL 2014 TRENDS

Fall Trends 2014

Trend: Pop Art

Fall is all about mix & match, texture and pattern. You will see:

  • masculine mixed with feminine elements (think a herringbone overcoat borrowed from the boys, but worn over a dark floral dress);
  • textured oversized knits and layered knitwear mixed with slinky, sleek or sheer;
  • wide- legged slouchy pants (great for inverted triangle or top-heavy ladies to balance you out);
  • longer miniskirts with a short boxy jacket, sweater or top (Petite women … not a trend for you!);
  • capes or wrap (blanket) coats;
  • quilted anything;
  • A-line dresses (the 60’s swing);
  • Shearling

Patterns – plaids, checks, herringbone, tweed, novelty prints (birds!), Pop-art inspired prints, abstract splashes

Colours – blue, red, pastels, neon

Fall Trends 2014

Trend: Oversize Knitwear

Accessories – gold everything, crocodile, slouchy bags

Footwear – work boot (or army style), menswear-inspired oxfords, loafers

Should you need some help editing your wardrobe, building outfits out of what you already have, or shopping for updates, check out my services on my website, or give me a shout at janise@theclosetdiva.ca.

Fashionably Yours,
Janise
XO

 

 

 

 

Since 2006, Janise Bachler, the Closet Diva has been helping men & women learn how to dress and to refine their personal image in a way that brings them personal and professional success. Janise works with clients on closet editing, personal shopping and styling services. Janise is also a professional speaker and is the author of the book, Closet Rescue, available on Amazon. Janise Bachler has appeared on Global TV, CityTV, and in the Calgary Herald.

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Shopping Smarter Tips from a Personal Stylist

(An excerpt from my book, CLOSET RESCUE, available on Amazon & Kindle)

Before we ever step foot in a store, in order to address the “I have nothing to wear” issue, we must realize that we need to change our shopping habits. We all know the old saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” If you really want to change the state of your closet, you cannot keep shopping in the same way. Here is what I recommend to my clients about changing their buying habits:Janise_Bachler_Shopping

  1. Budget for Clothes. I recommend that you have a line item in your budget, just as we do for fuel or groceries, for clothing and personal care (haircuts, nails, and so on). Every month, if you put aside money for clothing, then you will have money to buy clusters instead of only one or two items. Trust me: it is a lot more fun to have several hundred dollars to go shopping with than being fearful of buying an outfit because your chequing account may not have enough in it to cover the cost. Remember, we want to buy outfits, and not orphans.
  2. Try on potential outfits! If we want to buy outfits, we must try on outfits. During my shopping trips, I regularly see women taking one or two items into the change room, usually a couple of tops. They seldom take any pants, layering pieces, or accessories to try on with those tops. When I take clients shopping, I will select enough pieces to create two different clusters. Usually, one colour cluster will be favoured over the other, and then we build on that favourite. I get my clients to try on 15 – 20 pieces at a time, with all kinds of “mix & match” potential; because my goal is to help my clients buy outfits, not orphans. When you try on clothes, take in bottoms, tops, layering pieces, and even accessories, to create potential outfits. If the store policy allows only trying on a handful of items at a time, do not let this discourage you. Just ask the change room attendant to hold your other items to try on after you have tried on the first ones. If you don’t take them all at once to the change room, I can pretty much guarantee that you won’t go back out into the store and select more items to try on. Try to select six to twelve pieces to take in and try on together at one time.
  3. Spend money on classics. It is wise to invest in clothing that will last, and these items are called classics for a reason. Classics have never been in style and never go out of style. Examples of classics are blazers, a pair of trouser dress pants, a trench coat, diamond stud earrings, a cashmere cardigan, basic button-down shirts, and boot-cut jeans. For classics like these, spend as much money as you can afford, because they will last you over many seasons. Spend less money on trendy items or trendy colours, because these will go out of style sooner. For a list of classics worth investing in, see the Appendix at the back of my book.
  4. Try not to “occasion” buy! Many times we have the “I have nothing to wear!” moment when we need to attend a party, go out on a date, go to a job interview, or are invited to an event. We rush out to the store and buy something in a panic, which usually means we compromise and don’t buy something that we love, but something that will do. When we do this, chances are we will never wear that piece or those pieces again. Try to anticipate these events and have potential outfits already waiting in your closet. If you have trouble remembering the outfits, take a picture of yourself wearing them and hang the photos inside your closet or put them into an outfit binder, or simply write down a description of the outfit for future reference. I take pictures and keep them on my iPhone and iPad for easy reference.
  5. Avoid the “SALES TRAP”! If you fall in love with an item on sale, ask yourself this question: Do I have at least one or two things already at home in my closet that I could wear with this? If you don’t, then ask yourself this question: Am I prepared, right now and today, to purchase two or three items to go with it to turn it into an outfit? If you have nothing at home to wear with it or you cannot afford to buy the other items to go with it, LEAVE IT ON THE RACK! Step away from the store! If you take it home, it will be just another orphan in your closet. Another good question to ask yourself about an item on sale is, Would I buy this if it was at regular price? If not, chances are you don’t really love it as much as you should. I want you to be buying pieces that make you feel fabulous. I call them homeruns: If it isn’t a homerun, don’t take it home. If you get home and you are still thinking about that item a day or two later, then maybe you should go back and purchase it. It is always better to think about it and be sure than to “impulse-buy.”

MAKING THE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE MORE ENJOYABLE

I encounter clients all the time who do not like shopping for clothes. This may sound unusual for a woman, but I assure you, it is not uncommon. Many women find walking into a store quite intimidating and even overwhelming. One of my clients even said to me, “Don’t be surprised if I end up in tears.” However, after teaching her how to shop smarter, she actually now enjoys the shopping experience and asks me to take her personal shopping almost every new season.

Here are a few pointers to reduce your stress when shopping:

  • Wear a nice but comfortable outfit. You want to feel that you look nice, but today is not the day to wear your 4” stiletto heels, no matter how great they make you look. After an hour on hard tile floors, you will likely be in agony. (Oh yes, I have been there and done that!) Wear something that is easy to take off and put on. A button-up shirt or tights will be cumbersome and frustrating when trying on clothes.
  • Select your shopping venue. If you find having too much selection overwhelming, avoid department stores and stick to smaller boutique or chain clothing stores in a mall.
  • Survey the merchandise for colour stories. Stand at the front of the store and scan the selection before entering. In most chain clothing stores, at least the ones for grown-ups, you will see a number of colour groupings displayed. For example, on the right side, you may see clothing with various pieces in pink and black. Behind it you may see another group in coral and beige, and on the left, clothing featuring aqua and navy. In the clothing industry, we call these colour stories. Pick one or two colour stories, at the most, that appeal to you, and select four to six pieces from each colour story to try on. Why? The pieces within those colour stories are tonally dyed and selected to coordinate, for easier shopping for customers. This could be the beginning of a new cluster!
  • Ask for help. Enlist the help of a salesperson immediately when you walk into the store. Most of us dread having a salesperson approach us asking, “May I help you?” Instead, intentionally choose a salesperson close to your own age, or one who seems friendly or knowledgeable with other customers, and get her on your side immediately. Just say, “I really need to put together one or two outfits today, and I could use your help.” When the salesperson hears the word “outfit,” she will usually be happy to help you because she knows you will be purchasing more merchandise than their average customer. NOTE: Keep in mind that salespeople are not trained image consultants. They are often underpaid and overworked, and their goal is to get merchandise out of the store, so when they tell you it looks great on you, be suspicious. Trust your own instincts and buy only what you love. Or, enlist the services of an image consultant or personal shopper who will give you her honest opinion, because the personal shopper’s motivation is to make you look great so you will hire her again. A personal shopper does not usually make any commission off the sale of the clothing, so their motivation will be different than that of a salesperson.

Remember, above all, shopping should be fun. If you have some money in your wallet and a plan to buy outfits, or to add to an existing cluster, your shopping experience will be much less stressful for you, and you may even find yourself enjoying it.

 

Janise_Bachler_250pixSince 2006, Janise Bachler, the Closet Diva has been helping men & women learn how to dress and to refine their personal image in a way that brings them personal and professional success. Janise works with clients on closet editing, personal shopping and styling services. Janise is also a professional speaker and is the author of the book, Closet Rescue, available on Amazon. Janise Bachler has appeared on Global TV, CityTV, and in the Calgary Herald.

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